I never noticed this before....but apparently all DDR4 ECC memory like this.  Notice the curves on the pin side.  These 8gb modules were pulled out of a brand new HP G9 server.  The 32gb modules I put in have the same curves.  I assume memory slots have the same curves preventing adding incompatible ram?
EDIT:  Turns out this is indeed by design!  I am told it is to limit the amount of force being applied to the system board during insertion.